3. Family as an in institution

3.1. Marriages

Marriage is a more or less permanent alliance between a man and a woman.

Types of marriages

•       Customary marriage

This is done by arrangement by the concerned families. Dowry is paid and it is a form of compensation for the loss of a member of the family.

•       Religious marriage

This differs from one religion to another eg. Islam, Christian, Hindu etc.

•       The Christian marriage is supposed to be monogamous and additional wives are considered illegitimate. This type can only be formally ended through divorce. It is usually expensive because of the weddings done. (marriage certificate is given)

•       Civil marriage

This type takes place in a registry office such as the Attorney, D.C etc. It is supposed to be monogamous and can be dissolved through divorce. It gives the wife and children stronger inheritance rights than the customary type.

•       Come we stay

This is where two people decide to stay together and start a family. Many people prefer this type because it is not expensive.

 

Changes in traditional and modern families

Structural changes

·         Nuclear family to extended family

·         Large family to small family

Role changes

·         The breadwinner is no longer the man but both

·         The socializer is no longer the parents but the house help

·         Haste marriages

Implications of family changes on education

·         There are more divorces than before

·         Conflict at home

·         The children are not socialized with good moral